Through solution-oriented discussion forums; Fatuma’s Voice employs the power of artistic tools, intellectual discourse, and cultural devices, to creatively reaffirm community members about the significance of their amplified voice, and motivate engagement in communal, national and continental progression.
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Toxic Love Vs. Healthy Love: Pick Your Poison
Emmanuel Addi
I kept asking myself why people keep maintaining toxic relationships and still complain while they have a choice of just quitting? Love for us is different, and others decide to love selflessly despite the circumstances coz of various issues; Fear of losing the person or material satisfaction and maRead more
I kept asking myself why people keep maintaining toxic relationships and still complain while they have a choice of just quitting?
Love for us is different, and others decide to love selflessly despite the circumstances coz of various issues; Fear of losing the person or material satisfaction and many other reasons.
Others decide to persevere in the pain of the moment hoping it will be well at the end and also because they know it may be more difficult or painful if they quit, so they just remain coz it’s the best option.
We can take a scenario of a toxic marriage, let’s say the spouse/husband is depended upon at their by their other family. Him/her leaving means that the other family will suffer. Thus better to persevere the pain.
But all in all, that’s not a justification to remain in toxic relationships, there’s more to life than what we think is important to us.
Let’s learn to love ourselves 🙏🏽.
Thanks @Amara for sharing this amazing piece
See lessHow does the way we bring up our kids affects their view of life and their relationship with other people around them?
Emmanuel Addi
For most people, who they are and the reason they do what they do is greatly contributed by the environment they grew up in. Children will always emulate their parent’s behaviors and thus greatly influenced by how they’re brought up. They way their parents relate with each other and how they relateRead more
For most people, who they are and the reason they do what they do is greatly contributed by the environment they grew up in. Children will always emulate their parent’s behaviors and thus greatly influenced by how they’re brought up.
They way their parents relate with each other and how they relate with others will most probably reflect on their relationships.
So basically, how they’re brought up influences them alot, then after they’re grown up, they may either depart or stick depending with their circumstances
See lessWhy do most housekeepers maltreat their househelps?
Emmanuel Addi
Humanity?. Some people are just inhuman and maybe it’s coz of what they went through as they grew up. Sometimes it ain’t their fault. And also money is also a factor, some people with money just become inhuman coz they think money will always do everything for them, that they can buy anything they wRead more
Humanity?. Some people are just inhuman and maybe it’s coz of what they went through as they grew up. Sometimes it ain’t their fault.
See lessAnd also money is also a factor, some people with money just become inhuman coz they think money will always do everything for them, that they can buy anything they want?. Toxic personalities
Would you rather be a popular influencer who is hated by many people or unknown but loved by those who do?
Emmanuel Addi
There’s fame and clout, but it depends on what one does... and as a matter of fact, we can’t always be loved all the time, some hate us even when we’re right. I just better be an influencer and build up myself ... for this case, it’s not a matter of seeking love but rather building one self and creaRead more
There’s fame and clout, but it depends on what one does… and as a matter of fact, we can’t always be loved all the time, some hate us even when we’re right. I just better be an influencer and build up myself … for this case, it’s not a matter of seeking love but rather building one self and creating a better environment around us
See lessCan we talk about mental health and how it is affecting the youth in our society today.
Emmanuel Addi
One thing that I think mostly brings this up, is the failed parenting system. Most of our parent’s aren’t that free with there kids and they grow not being used to sharing. That’s why lots of our youths are depressed. The society also expects alot from us and yet they do not advocate for mental healRead more
One thing that I think mostly brings this up, is the failed parenting system. Most of our parent’s aren’t that free with there kids and they grow not being used to sharing. That’s why lots of our youths are depressed. The society also expects alot from us and yet they do not advocate for mental health
See lessWhy do youths love drugs? We see most youths they don’t care about their lives even they end up dying without a future.
Emmanuel Addi
We’re in a society where we’ve normalized so many stuffs and the youths have been given alot of freedom. This stuff of peer pressure is also real, youths want to use drugs so that they have the sense of Belonging which is actually cowardize... they need to learn that theres More to life than just drRead more
We’re in a society where we’ve normalized so many stuffs and the youths have been given alot of freedom. This stuff of peer pressure is also real, youths want to use drugs so that they have the sense of Belonging which is actually cowardize… they need to learn that theres More to life than just drugs
See lessAre Leaders born or made? The Nature-Nurture debate!
Emmanuel Addi
Leaders are made not born... if leaders were born, we’d all be leaders?.... leadership is something that is nurtured, you don’t just wake up one day and you’re a leader, it’s by the “little efforts “ we put in life that makes us good leaders. And the concept of leadership also is not taught well, itRead more
Leaders are made not born… if leaders were born, we’d all be leaders?…. leadership is something that is nurtured, you don’t just wake up one day and you’re a leader, it’s by the “little efforts “ we put in life that makes us good leaders. And the concept of leadership also is not taught well, it’s something I guess we just adapt from the surrounding environment
See lessDon’t you think Climate Crisis should be given the same attention as Corona pandemic ?
Emmanuel Addi
Yes it should. They say “little things” matter... and people’s view on environmental conservation is full of ignorance. I believe it should really be given high attention and above all our communities need to be taught on the measures and the essense of environmental conservation.
Yes it should. They say “little things” matter… and people’s view on environmental conservation is full of ignorance. I believe it should really be given high attention and above all our communities need to be taught on the measures and the essense of environmental conservation.
See lessDepression In Men: How do you know that behind a man’s smile lies a dark cloud that weighs down on his soul?
Emmanuel Addi
There ain’t such a perfect answer for this but most of us men are into these toxic masculinity myths that we ought to be strong, never show we’re weak etc... This is a lie, we’re still human and one thing we’re to learn is that real men share stories, and when we begin to do this, it’ll be a goodbyeRead more
There ain’t such a perfect answer for this but most of us men are into these toxic masculinity myths that we ought to be strong, never show we’re weak etc… This is a lie, we’re still human and one thing we’re to learn is that real men share stories, and when we begin to do this, it’ll be a goodbye to depression.
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