We can talk about all the pleasures of Masturbation but it all comes with one cost which is Addiction. I have friends who have gotten to the point of making self-pleasure a preference to sex with their partners.

To make it worse, the instant gratification it gives doesn’t need any work or struggle and only benefits you which undermines the other person in the relationship.

Believe it or not, there’s an Alcoholics version for Sex & Sexual Fetich Addicts where hundreds f people seek help each day. One of the most common thing people regret here is that they thought they were taking charge of their bodies, little did they know that it was their body that was taking charge of them.

Of course, the decision is yours as an adult. But just like alcohol or nicotine addicts, sex addiction is too mild to be felt until it is too heavy to be broken. The choice is yours but mine is to enjoy the the thrill of chasing a potential partner, and once I get there, make sure we both share that special gift.

Call it spirituality or anything else but the main reason behind all the pain, regret and guilt that comes with sexual addiction and masturbation is that the orgasmic pleasure of sex is too deep to be fully experienced by someone on their own without eventually destroying them.