Phanice Wamukota Nanyuki , Kenya 9 Questions 184 Answers 15 Best Answers 5,033 Points View Profile 4 Phanice Wamukota East Africa Asked: August 23, 2018In: Sex and Relationships Lack of Loyalty or change of priorities? 4 So a man marries a simple hardworking woman who helps him build his career, home and confidence then ten years down the line he divorces her because she is “still the same”? What is? Share Facebook 3 Answers Voted Oldest Recent Rudric Neba Bamenda, Cameroon 1 Questions 4 Answers 0 Best Answers 130 Points View Profile Rudric Neba West Africa Added an answer on September 19, 2018 at 5:40 pm Ladies please, this issue is becoming rampant and heart breaking each I get this. When you meet a guy, guide him build his career and so on. Try as much as possible to do something too. The world is changing. What happened in our parents era, can’t happen now. This is really sad, after all those years gosh 0 Reply Share Share Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Share on WhatsApp Manser Thelua Kenya 9 Questions 138 Answers 2 Best Answers 4,212 Points View Profile Manser Thelua East Africa Added an answer on August 25, 2018 at 3:07 am We live in a visual world. The media makes it worse by selling sights and sounds. When people get married, the love should be unconditional. However, honestly speaking… people need to grow. I don’t want my partner to be the same person I met 10 years ago. We both need to grow and challenge each other. I don’t advocate for leaving but i sure as hell also don’t advocate stagnating just because someone declared their undying love for you… <3 0 Reply Share Share Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Share on WhatsApp Phanice Wamukota Nanyuki , Kenya 9 Questions 184 Answers 15 Best Answers 5,033 Points View Profile Phanice Wamukota East Africa Replied to answer on August 31, 2018 at 11:36 am Thank you for taking the time to reply to this. But aren’t there things that should be constant. The things that still define the spouse that to took. A person still needs to grow intellectually for instance. But there attributes, should this be given room to change? 1 Reply Share Share Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Share on WhatsApp Leave an answerLeave an answerCancel reply Notify me of new posts by email.