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I have noticed this especially in relationships that most people keep wanting more and more of the other persons time, energy, money, love or whatever it is that attracted them. Is this a normal thing and does anybody else find it weird that the people we love are the ones who are using us the most?
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Emmanuel Addi
Love isn’t meant to drain anyone in a relationship. It’s meant to bulld us together.
We often forget that Sometimes it’s not love, sometimes it’s the lust and our own selfish emotions.
Once we learn the difference between love and lust, we’ll be at a better place to understand all this. Love is selfless and not selfish, therefore if we keep wanting more, it’s either the problem is you ( your expectations in the relationship and reciprocation) or the kind of relationship you’re in.
I would suggest that:
1. Try to communicate. Talk this out and probably address the issue and all will be well. You’ll make a go ahead after that.
2. Find emotional fulfillment in yourself. Don’t seek fulfillment in others, they can’t fill the voids in you, you gotta do it yourself.
And lastly, you can’t love others if you can’t love yourself. Charity begins at home.
Phanice Wamukota
It shouldn’t be normal, but it is happening. Relationships are a two-way adventure. If you find yourself in one where you are the only one giving and receiving nothing in return, then that partnership is bound to experience bumps for the obvious reasons unless the two of you sit down and talk. It is also important to understand your partner. There are five languages of love according to Dr. Gary Chapman;
1. Words of affirmation.
2. Gifts.
3. Acts of service
4. Quality time
5.Physical touch.
Maybe knowing your partner will help identify how they prefer to receive or express their love. Otherwise, not all relationships are bound to succeed. Ikikataa imekataa.